My Ex Is Posting Pic on Social Media With Other Guys With My Ex Again

Last Updated on April 7, 2022 by

Have you been asking yourself, why is my ex posting so much on social media?

There are several reasons why this might be including: They feel lonely, he/she is trying to get your attention, or they want you to believe they're living their best life after the break-up.

Unfortunately, relationships don't always work out as planned; you were both crazy about each other when you first got together, but a few months down the line, things started going wrong.

Since you could not resolve your issues, you decided to go your separate ways. Now, please understand that playing the blame game here is a waste of time.

When a union fails, whether you feel your partner was responsible is irrelevant. If it didn't work, you simply weren't meant to be, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

However, now it appears that your ex-partner is playing silly buggers and posting incessantly on social media.

You know this isn't normal behavior because when you guys were together, he/she rarely posted.

Now you're left wondering, why is my ex posting so much on social media? Not to worry, it's a legitimate question; keep reading to find out why this might be.

  • What Does It Mean When Your Ex Keeps Posting On Social Media?
  • 15 Reasons Why Your Ex Is Posting So Much On Social Media
  • Is Your Ex Trying To Get Your Attention?
  • Is Your Ex Pretending To Be Over You?
  • How To Deal With An Ex Who Is Posting So Much On Social Media
  • Final Thoughts
What Does It Mean When Your Ex Keeps Posting On Social Media?

There is no clear answer to why your ex keeps posting on social media.

But, it could be because they're trying to get your attention, they want to make you suffer because you dumped them, or they're moving on in life, and the reason for their posts has absolutely nothing to do with you.

Nevertheless, in this age of social media, we judge people by their posting behavior. If a friend stops posting, we assume she's in a bad place.

If he posts too much, he's showing off. And if they don't have a social media account, it means they've got something to hide.

But the reality is, these are just assumptions, and there could be any number of reasons why your ex is posting too much on social media.

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If you had your heart set on getting back together with your ex, seeing them post about the wonderful life they're now living since you broke up can be pretty traumatic.

You know they were not posting that much when you were together, so apart from the obvious, what's different now?

Well, the difference is that your ex-partner has a motive for over posting.

There is definitely a reason for it, but it might not be what you think. Before you start jumping to conclusions, you'll need to find out exactly what it is.

There are several reasons why your ex  posting more on social media, including: they feel lonely, he/she is trying to get your attention, and they want you to think they're living their best life.

Now you need to ask yourself, why are you bothered that your ex posts so much on social media?

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Because ultimately, if you no longer had any interest in them, you could just hit block and keep it moving. Anyway, here are ten reasons why your ex is posting so much on social media.

15 Reasons Why Your Ex Is Posting So Much On Social Media

#1 They Feel Lonely

Loneliness is a big deal, and according to a global survey, approximately 33 percent of adults experience loneliness.

When people are in a relationship, loneliness subsides, but it's not uncommon for loneliness to drive a person to the internet. Whether they join dating sites or other places to hang out online, lonely people just want someone to socialize with.

Now that you're not together anymore, your ex has a void to fill, and they've got plenty of time on their hands.

If your ex's posts are question-related, they're looking for a response, and whoever responds is who they interact with.

If he/she is hoping to get back together with you, they're probably wishing you'll be the one to answer the question so they can start a conversation.

#2 He/She Is Trying To Get Your Attention

If your ex is posting raunchy pictures alone, it could either be because they're looking for a date or they're trying to get your attention.

If your ex is trying to get your attention, the aim is to remind you of what you're missing.

It may not be that they want to get back together with you, but they wouldn't mind if you came knocking again so they can shut the door in your face. Here are five signs that your ex is trying to get your attention by over-posting on social media:

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#3 Your Ex Is Posting Malicious Content

Some people just don't have much tact when playing the attention-seeking game.

Your ex's posts probably didn't start off as malicious, but because they weren't getting the response they were hoping for, they decided to take an any means necessary approach and go for a low blow.

Malicious content could include directly referencing issues in your relationship or being outright disrespectful by calling you names and airing your dirty laundry.

If your ex goes to these lengths to get your attention, it's time to use my three-step approach to ending a toxic relationship, ignore, delete, block!

Once your ex starts posting malicious content, they're doing their best to push your buttons to get a reaction out of you. He/she has gotten to the point where any attention will do.

#4 Your Ex Is Posting Provocative Pictures

With this one, it will depend on whether your ex was the type to post provocative pictures before you got together or not.

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If they were, and they stopped when you were together out of respect for you, it would make sense that they've returned to their former posting behavior.

However, if your ex was modest before you met them and modest when you were together, you can conclude that your ex posting selfies after breakup to get your attention.

If you're asking, why is my ex suddenly posting on social media? It's their way of making sure they are always on your mind.

Commenting is a big deal on social media because most people don't do it. In general, we mindlessly scroll through our feeds and hit like if it grabs our attention.

But leaving a comment means we liked the content so much it moved us to say something about it.

But unless you're a content creator, you probably post random stuff like the delicious meal your mom made or your nephew doing a handstand.

Nevertheless, if your ex is trying to get your attention, they'll start commenting on your posts in hopes that it will lead to a conversation.

#6 Your Ex Is Checking Your Stories

On Facebook, you can see who views your stories. Your ex is well aware of this because they can also see who views their stories.

So he/she is viewing your stories intentionally because they know you'll see them looking.

It's their way of letting you know they're thinking of you and still interested in your life.

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#7 Your Ex Is Acting Jealous

Yep! People can most definitely act jealous on social media. Let's say you post a photo of you having a blast on a night out, and there are some members of the opposite sex in the pictures.

Your ex will display their jealousy by making a cheeky comment on the post by saying something like: "It looks like you moved on pretty quick then!" (Angry face emoji).

Or if you've posted a picture that shows off your body, they might leave a comment telling you to cover up.

Basically, don't take little digs lightly; they signify jealousy.

#8 They Want You To Think They Are Living Their Best Life

One of the best forms of revenge is success. If your ex-partner is posting pictures of a new car, while they're on vacation or eating out in fancy restaurants, it's because they want you to think they've levelled up.

It may just be the case that your ex is renting all this fancy stuff and is maxing out their credit cards to prove a point, so don't get jealous just yet.

But whether their success is legitimate, or it's an act, they want you to know all about it.

#9 It's a Cry For Help

Did your ex-partner suffer from depression, anxiety, or other mental health issues?

If so, they may be finding it difficult to cope after the break-up. What is the content of their posts?

Are they talking about how depressed they feel? Or how difficult it is dealing with a break-up?

If so, your ex probably desperately needs someone to talk to and incessant posting on social media is their way of asking for help. He/she hopes that someone will reach out and ask if they're okay.

#10 Your Ex Is Bored

Were you and your ex-partner always together? Like, you did everything together; you went to the gym together, to the store together, on your days off, you were always at each other's houses.

But now you've broken up; your ex doesn't have much to do except post on social media in their spare time.

In this instance, there is nothing sinister going on; your former boyfriend or girlfriend is just passing the time.

After a few weeks, once they get their groove back, they'll probably stop posting, so I wouldn't worry too much about it.

#11 Your Ex Wants To Hurt You

Is your ex posting pictures looking all loved up with their new significant other?

Are they just doing way too much with it? Are the pictures overly affectionate to the point where it's just sickening, and everyone is talking about it?

Since your ex-partner feels hard done by because you were the one to end the relationship, they want you to feel the same pain as them.

So by bombarding you with pictures in the arms of another, they're hoping it will remind you of what you're missing and rub you up the wrong way.

Remember, when your ex seems happy on social media, don't read too much into it, because everything that glitters is not gold.

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#12 He/She Is Looking For Another Hook-Up

Well, now that your ex-partner is a free agent, he/she is looking for another hook-up, and what better way to find someone than on social media?

They don't need to get dressed up and go out to a bar, all that's required is to post some cute pictures on Instagram and Facebook, and they could have a new date soon.

#13 They Want Validation From Others

A break-up can wreak havoc on our mental health. Even if you gave a perfectly logical explanation for why you decided to end the relationship, such as you need to focus on your exams.

Your ex-partner finds your reasons difficult to accept, as far as he/she is concerned, if you really wanted to be with them, you'd find a way to make it work.

So now, your ex has convinced themselves that the real reason you called it quits is that there's something wrong with them. They now spend all their time and energy inventing the real reason why you dumped them.

These fictitious reasons could include: They don't make enough money, their breasts are too small, they're not tall enough, they're not slim enough, or you found someone else more attractive.

The reality is that no one has the power to make a person feel insecure.

Which means they probably felt this way about themselves before you even met. The problem is that the break-up served as confirmation, and now they're desperately seeking validation from others, and one way to get it is through constant posting on social media.

These posts might consist of posting selfies and asking their followers to rate their looks, or asking for validation about their weight.

#14 Your Ex-Partner Feels Free

This will take a bit of self-reflection, and you might not like the answer.

What were your partner's social media habits like before you got together? Were they posting often? When you became an official couple, how did you feel about your partner posting pictures of themselves on social media all the time?

Suppose you thought the photos were too provocative, and every time they posted, you got into an argument.

In that case, your ex-partner may have stopped posting on social media because they got fed up with listening to your negative comments.

Now that you've broken up, your ex feels free to start posting those bikini or topless six-pack showing posts again.

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#15 Your Ex-Partner Is Creating A New Identity

Many people choose to reinvent themselves after a break-up. Instead of getting depressed, eating ice cream, and watching tear-jerker movies until they're over the pain, they decide to become the person they've always wanted to be.

So they'll do something like a thirty-day weight loss challenge or a thirty-day start your own business challenge. And during those thirty days, they'll upload an update highlighting their progress to social media.

Whatever your ex-partner is doing might involve posting multiple times a day. In most cases, your ex posting so much on social media will have nothing to do with you.

They're not trying to get your attention or reel you back into the relationship. It will be the total opposite of that; your ex is trying to create as much distance between who they were when they met you as possible.

In other words, they want such a dramatic upgrade to their life that if they were the new version of themselves when they met you, they wouldn't have looked twice at you…OUCH!

Is Your Ex Trying To Get Your Attention?

Is Your Ex Trying To Get Your Attention?

If your ex is trying to get your attention by over posting on social media, you'll know because the stuff they post will make it obvious.

For example, they'll tag you in posts; they'll post pictures of places you visited together; they'll make references to missing their ex, keep banging on about the pain of a broken heart, or your ex posting quotes on social media as a way of communicating a message to you.

As previously mentioned, another way of getting your attention is to post provocative pictures.

If you're thinking about getting back together with your ex and want to test the waters to make sure, take the bait and see what happens.

If they are happy you responded and continue the conversation, you know you're in with a chance of rekindling the relationship.

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Is Your Ex Pretending To Be Over You?

If you dumped your ex-partner, then there is a high chance his/her excessive posting is their way of trying to convince you they're over you.

As mentioned, they might be posting pictures of themselves living their best life or acting all loved up with their new partner. These are two ways of pretending to be over you.

Acting all loved up with their new partner is the most suspect if you recently broke up because most people just don't fall in love that quickly.

How To Deal With An Ex Who Is Posting So Much On Social Media?

What you do in a situation like this will depend on what you want from your ex. Nevertheless, you can do one of four things, don't jump to conclusions, ignore your ex, block your ex, or engage with your ex. Here are four ways to deal with an ex who is posting too much on social media:

#1 Don't Jump To Conclusions

As mentioned, there could be any number of reasons why your ex is posting so much on social media.

You don't want to jump to conclusions and assume it's because they want to get back together.

Analyze your ex-partners posting habits for a while before you make a move. If it's because they're bored, you'll embarrass yourself by sliding into his/her DMs and asking for another chance.

If you are hoping to rekindle the relationship, you will want to make sure the feeling is mutual before taking any action.

#2 Ignore Your Ex

If you have no interest in getting back together with your ex or maintaining a friendship with them, and their posts are not causing you any offense, just ignore them.

Some people feel the need to be polite and like the posts of the people they follow.

But don't feel obligated to do so. Additionally, people read something into everything these days, and by liking your ex's post, they could jump to the conclusion that you're still interested.

If your former partner posts to get your attention, they'll soon stop trying when they realize their attention-seeking games are not working.

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#3 Block/Mute Your Ex

If your ex-partner's posts are either offensive to you or cause you to think about them again when you no longer want him/her in your life, block or mute them.

Whether you block or mute will depend on the circumstances. You can block your ex if they're sending you messages, being rude, or their posts are getting too stressful for you to deal with.

You can mute your ex on social media if you just want to keep them at arm's length. You know what they say, "out of sight, out of mind."

#4 Engage With Your Ex

Do you want to get back together with your ex-partner? Or maybe, you're fine with just being friends.

Engaging with them won't hurt; you can like and comment on some of their posts to get a conversation started.

Social media is a great place to flirt; if you're feeling really brave, you can lace your comments with sexual undertones to get your ex excited about the idea of re-establishing your relationship.

Final Thoughts

Now that you have some answers to the question, why is my ex posting so much on social media?

You can decide what you're going to do about it. Do you want to get back together with your ex, maintain a friendship, or get as far away from them as possible?

If you're thinking about getting back together, just make sure you take into consideration the reason why you broke up in the first place. Has anything changed? If not, you might want to reconsider.

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